stress di tempat orang

Hidup di tempat orang

my mother always tell me, 'bile ada org datang rumah, greet them well. give them food to eat sbb they bawa berkat into the house.' dulu, bile die ada kat rumah aku, aku tak pernah miss asking him ape die nak for breakfast, lunch or even dinner. kalau aku malas masak pon, i know i'll have to go get something on the table.

dah banyak kejadian2 yg terjadi dimana, bila kat kg, gather ramai2, there's always not enuff food. Just because they think that nasik 10 pot is more than enuff for org seramai 36 org. Woi! ko gile ape! 10 pot je? ko nak aku makan berapa butir nasik tuh?! and because of that too, sanak2 saudara akan berebut2 di meja makan. oowh, sungguh pathetic. ade ke rebut makanan? Jadi, sejak dari kejadian tu, my mother will take charge of the kitchen esp. bab masak nasik nih. die slalu ckp 'anak2, dah besar nnt bile kite punye family pulak gather, never compromise on food'. ape la siap boleh gaduh2 tak puas hati nasi tak cukup sedangkan diorg yg masak tak cukup. owh, sungguh tidak pandai.

tp, the situation is different when the tuan-tuan rumah tidak sensitive kepada tetamu mereka dan cuba untuk hidup seperti biasa. they still buy food that they usually eat, tp mengharapkan agar si tetamu itu untuk masak. owh. sungguh memeningkan kepala. kalau dia yg masak, aku boleh la nak makan ape saja. tp ni die yg nak makan and i have to cook what they usually eat. takpelah. kerana aku menumpang dirumah org, terpaksalah biar insensitivity itu tolak ketepi. what can i do? nothing i guess.

so, the lesson here is, a host should never compromise on food,walau mcm mana susah pun hidup dia. mmg la hidup di tempat org lain dari di rumah sendiri. tetapi, sbg host, u should be more alert and sensitive towards ur guest especially if they're there to look after you and do housechores for you.. owh dammit. dahla tuh. enough of this babbling. aku rase mcm mak nenek pulak dah. oklah. perambus dulu.