Sunday, April 11, 2010

Family Outing

Next week, husband will be away for 4 days, leaving me and little Hamza behind. *sob sob sob* But this whole week, both of us have been working so hard, we hardly have time for each other, even for little Hamza. A lot of things happened, and indeed it was a super tiring week for us all. But I didn't want to just stay home. So, after 1 whole afternoon of burying ourselves under the duvet, I persuaded husband to take both of us out. But, where to go? OU? We go there almost every weekend. We don't fancy places like KLCC and Sunway Pyramid. We love convenience. The Curve? Naaah..

Why don't we try Bangsar Shopping Center? I asked Husband

Ada apa sana? He asked

I am not sure. But i know they have a huge mothercare there. I said

What do you want to buy from mothercare? he asked

I just wanna have a look. And since we don't wanna go to OU, lets just see what they have there. I said.

OK. go get ready. He said. 

530p.m, we arrived at BSC. A very quiet mall. And we went straight to the second floor. They have The Times Bookstore there. aaaaahh, best!!! Husband bought himself 2 storybooks. Heheheh. Then, we went into mothercare, check out some stuff. Didn't buy anything though. Barang-barang Hamza dah banyak, plus he grows so fast. So, yeah. We did buy him a few pieces of baju and present for our friends (aimi and Rad) for their new addition. 

We left BSC at 7pm. Wanted to go to i-City, Shah Alam. The crowd??MADNESS!!! I thought there were food outlets there. Malangnya, tiada kedai yang buka. So, i said to husband, lets just go find something to eat. The lights, memang indah. But I was to hungry to enjoy the colourful lights. Husband couldn't agree more. 

We went round Shah Alam, *at the same time, reminisce the times when we were in Uni. Kuikui. Kasi can la jiwang-jiwang sikit. Good for the relationship, kan?? Then i remembered Nasi Lemak Jati. I asked husband to go find it. Terhingin pulak! And ADA LAGI!!! OMG! we bought 2 bungkus for ourselves. *Nafsu gila!! We had dinner at Tasik Shah Alam *sempat lagi! and left for home around 10p.m. 

All in all, I would say, I enjoyed it. Husband too. Hoping for more quality time with my little family after this. Minta maaf, kerana entry ini agak hambar sebab kami tertinggal camera. Maka, tiada gambar. Till then, toodles

Kehilangan

The memory is still fresh in my mind. The memory of losing someone I love. The memory of how I felt when receiving the news too is still fresh even though it happened 7 years ago. Disbelief. Shocked. Denial. Confused. My best friend died in a car accident. It took me a long time to recover.  

A couple of days ago, another similar news came. Husband's ex-colleague who is also a good friend to me and husband passed away due to dengue shock. It was basically another round of mixed feelings. Sad, disbelief, denial, but at the same time, trying to understand and letting go, believing that this is by all means, Qada' and Qadar. All the memories of my late friend resurfaced, although they died of different causes. Today, looking through my facebook, friends are putting up her pictures, their last times together, their last happy moments with her and many left comments as well. They want to keep the memories of her close to their hearts and most of all, they do not want to forget her.

I am still taken aback my the news. Especially now that I have a family of my own. I have a little one who is so dependent on me. My little baby Hamza. As well as a loving husband. I cannot imagine if I lose any of them or even what will happen to them if I become the first to leave this world? 

To the family of our late friend, Zarina bt Abdul Ghafir, all our condolences for your loss. Lets make prayers to those who have passed, al-Fatihah.